Blessing CEO, a controversial Nigerian relationship expert, has made a statement about damaged people.
In the video posted on Instagram, she urged followers to look inward and heal, stating that being “damaged” isn’t an insult but a result of unprocessed pain.
“A lot of you are damaged. When you’re damaged, everything beautiful becomes too good to be true,” she said.
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Blessing spoke directly to those who doubt genuine love due to what they’ve seen, heard, or experienced in the past. She explained how social media and blog content often highlight chaos, breakups, and scandal, which in turn conditions many to expect the worst even in new relationships.
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“The reason why you’re damaged is because you do not take the lessons out of the experience. Once you take out the lessons, you become peaceful,” she added.
She encouraged people to stop generalising based on one bad experience, reminding viewers that “men are not wicked” and “women are not wicked”—rather, it’s the individuals we choose that determine our experiences.
Drawing from both personal reflections and scriptural references, she concluded with a strong reminder:
“Love is beautiful. The only problem is, you don’t believe you deserve it. But you do.”
In other news, Blessing CEO is looking to walk down the aisle with her fiancé, controversial businessman Ikechukwu Ogbonna, aka IVD.
Taking to her Instagram page, Blessing CEO shared the big news with her fans in an emotionally charged caption:
“I SAID YES….. @ivd001 For the first time, I did not want drama. For the first time, I did not want the noise. I just wanted peace and softness! To hear our heartbeat as 1 and hear you breathe into my face. Let’s do this together as we take this journey forever. YES, YES, YES, I WILL MARRY YOU. IKECHUKWU DARRY OGBONNA.”
