Controversial Nigerian media personality, Emmanuel Obruste, who is better known as GehGeh, has stirred reactions online following remarks he made during Carter Efe’s live stream, where he openly shared his views on money and commitment in relationships.
While speaking on the live session, GehGeh stated, “When you don’t give a woman money, the relationship tends to last longer. Women stay where they’ve sacrificed and put in effort.”
He argued that sacrifice plays a major role in emotional attachment, claiming that people are more likely to value relationships they have invested in.
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He went further to explain that excessive financial spending by men can weaken commitment. “When you’re the one doing all the spending, it’s easier for them to leave anytime,” he said, adding that a lack of personal investment makes walking away less difficult.
GehGeh clarified that his comments were based on observation rather than hostility toward women. “I’m not saying women are bad,” he noted, “I’m saying human beings value what they suffer for.” According to him, relationships should be built on shared effort rather than one-sided financial responsibility.
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The comments, made in a relaxed but blunt exchange with Carter Efe, have since divided opinions online, with supporters agreeing with his stance on sacrifice, while critics argue that love and commitment cannot be reduced to financial dynamics alone.
