Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, a well-known Nigerian pastor, relationship coach, and founder of Love, Dating & Marriage Org, has once again turned heads online after giving a candid advice to single ladies on the types of men to steer clear of in real life.
In a thread posted on his X account today, the pastor listed six categories of men he described as red flags, warning women to avoid them to prevent potential emotional, financial, or spiritual pitfalls.
Among the standout warnings were:
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– Men who insist on marrying a virgin when the woman isn’t one.
– Significantly older men e.g., a 52-year-old pursuing a 22-year-old
– The “Mr Perpetual” type — always broke, constantly begging for help, yet stubbornly proud.
– “Mr Potential,” full of grand plans and dreams but lacking any real action or small steps forward.
– The boastful guy who claims “all the ladies want me” and juggles multiple women while blaming them for “disturbing” him.
– The perpetually dissatisfied man who complains there’s “no good woman again” and no one can please him.
The thread has drawn likes, reposts, and comments from followers appreciating the guidance, while some users jokingly asked for a similar list for men or added their own red flags in the replies.
