Big Brother Naija “Level Up” winner, Ijeoma Otabor, better known as Phyna, has written an emotional note to remember her late sister, Ruth Itabor.
The reality star took to her Instagram page to mark the 6th birthday of Ruth’s child while also reflecting on the life her sister lived.
In the long message, Phyna described her sister as more than just family. According to her, Ruth was her “confidant, safe place, protector, and quiet strength in every storm.”
She recalled how Ruth’s laughter always lightened her mood and how her kindness was never forced but natural.
Phyna said her sister carried love with grace, gave without hesitation, and taught her the true meaning of caring for people.
She wrote, “Today, I want to speak from the deepest part of my heart about someone whose presence shaped my life in ways words can barely capture: my beloved sister, Ruth.
“Ruth was more than a sister; she was a confidant, a safe place, a protector, and a quiet strength in every storm. Her laughter had a way of softening the hardest moments, and her kindness wasn’t something she performed; it was who she was to her core. She carried love with so much grace, gave without hesitation, and taught me what it means to show up for those you care about.
“There are memories of her that live with me like warm light moments of comfort, jokes we shared, silent understandings, and the way she believed in me even when I doubted myself. Losing her left a space that no one else can ever fill, but loving her left an imprint that can never fade. I honour her in the way I live, in the strength I gather, and in every step forward I take. Ruth, your name is stitched into my story forever, and I will continue to celebrate you in everything I become. You are loved beyond words, remembered beyond time, and missed beyond measure.
“Today also marks a beautiful milestone: Ruth’s first child turns 6!
“Happy Birthday to this bright, growing star! You carry a piece of your mother’s light, and watching you become your own person is a blessing. May your life be filled with joy, wisdom, laughter, protection, and endless opportunities. You are surrounded by love, and your mother’s spirit lives proudly through you. Shine, little one, this world is better with you in it. I love you
“Four Years of Love, Fame & Family
“From the very first day till now, it has been a ride of highs, lessons, memories, growth, and grace. My fans, my people, you stood by me in noise and in silence, in celebration and in controversy, in mistakes and in milestones. You didn’t just support me; you became my family, and together we built something powerful.
“To everyone who has loved me, rooted for me, prayed for me, protected me, and grown with me, thank you.
“Ruth, your memory lives in me. I love you, baby”.
