A social media user with the username, Doyinsola Ilori as taken to her Facebook platform to claim that most men do not want to be in a relationship with a woman who they consider to be better than them.
The Facebook user shared before and now photos of her ex-husband and revealed that they ended up being friends and even tell each other about their current partners.
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However, she said their friendship gets a bit shaky whenever she starts dating a man her ex considers to be better than him. According to her, her ex cuts her off whenever she’s with a better man, but doesn’t fight her when she’s with a man he believes is better than her.
Read what she shared, “This is my ex-husband, Kay.
“We were already divorced in the newer picture. The newer Pic was the graduation ceremony of the baby I was carrying in the older picture.
“We initially ended up being friends, and gist each other about our partners. I know, many of you are 3n3mies with yours. We weren’t until recently… Or, he sees me as one now, but I refuse to see him as one.”
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She continued, “Instead of presenting the compact SUV he was supposed to give me for my 60th, he’s beefing me over a friend he’s cock sure is my boyfriend because he met him in Dec 2024 and accused me of being all over him. How was I supposed to treat someone I’d invited to a party? Though divorced, I was all over him too o.
“I made an observation, despite the divorce, any man he sees around me, better than him, causes beef. He’d cut me off, stop talking to me, etc. But let it be anyone he’s clearly better than; he won’t fight me.
“I repeat, the average man (don’t know if this is exclusively a Nigerian man thing) doesn’t want you to look or be with someone better than him after the breakup. It doesn’t matter who initiated it.
She added jokingly, “Ọga, stop fighting me o. Even if he is my bf, so what, sef? Hian.
“Except a’no born for you, one day, you’d buy that SUV.”
Read her statement below:
