Why Losing My Shape To Breastfeeding Won’t Bother Me -Tboss

Ex- reality star and social media influencer, Tokunbo Idowu, better known as Tboss, has said she’s not afraid of losing her body shape to breastfeeding as it’s the topmost of her duty to her daughter.

The first-time mother, while speaking with Sunday PUNCH said she’ll go to any length to protect her daughter because she is her priority.

She maintained that she wouldn’t shy away from breastfeeding her child for fear of her breasts losing their firmness.

  
 
 
 
 
 
 
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 Let’s talk Breastfeeding. When I was pregnant I read a lot. I was glued to Google & all the mommy blogs, pages, books. I even finally braved watching a couple of birthing clips. That was a hard one. But what Genuinely Freaked the heck outta me was Breastfeeding. The thought of it alone gave me sleepless nights. No Jokes. After having my daughter I didn’t lactate until a couple of weeks afterwards. I almost got depressed. I did EVERYTHING. I ate everything & drank everything they advised until one Beautiful Day I had milk. Words cannot explain how Happy I was & now! Well, Now my Mother calls me “Vacuta Vesela”🙈😆. I LOVE to Breastfeed my child, It’s my favorite Mommie & Baby time. It creates a form of Bonding that’s nothing short of Spiritually Magical if such a thing even exists. The way she holds unto me, looks into my eyes whilst she suckles & smiles at me ☺️. I feel the Most Powerful when I’m breastfeeding . I honestly dread the day that I would have to stop. @amaarray Thank you for the Pap you made for me to trigger my milk- it finally worked. Miss N- this story wouldn’t be complete without mentioning you & how you taught me how to boob my daughter & all the things you gave me to make Boobietime painless & comfortable for me. @simplysorrentino always encouraging me not to give up & just relaxxxx @fair_princess thank you for recommending them lactating cookies- I couldn’t stand the smell but they tasted good & they Worked. God bless you ladies💋 Mommies in the house: Please share your Boobie Time stories with us🙏🏽.
 
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“I heard that’s a myth and I’ve honestly never worried about that. I did have other fears, concerns and questions about breastfeeding but that my breasts would sag? It never even crossed my mind. And even if they were to sag, my baby is totally worth it.

“A mother’s love for her child is unconditional. She can go to any length to keep her baby safe at all times. They say you don’t know how high you can jump until you are faced with a situation that requires you to jump. I am a mother and my child is my utmost priority.”

“I really wasn’t prepared to love someone so fiercely. When I held my daughter in my arms for the very first time, I knew what love really meant. I felt such a rush of emotions that you simply have to experience because there are no words to explain them.

Tboss, who recently had an emotional outburst after Internet trolls made unpleasant remarks about her baby’s photos, said she is very sensitive though she tries to ignore them at times.

Tboss speaks on love

  
 
 
 
 
 
 
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 The Original Goddess of Love is a Mother. Many thanks to @byjaru for putting together this shoot: it was Perfect ♥️ You are Creativity itself. @atilarystudio y’all just Always get it right. ALWAYS 👌🏽🙏🏽 @chiniellabeauty thank you for being such a darling , thank you for the pizza & chicken wings😆😉 but most especially thank you for my Facebeat 🙏🏽 @bourgie.barbie Your doll house is sooo beautiful💕guys check it out: the space is available for your private shoots & soirée at a very affordable rate. Thank me later😉
 
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Further speaking about love, the ex-reality star mentioned the reason anyone would wish her evil is due to the absence of love in such a person’s life.  

“I think the reason people would not only troll me, but anyone at all, is because they lack love. I mean if you grew up in a love-filled environment and were taught the importance of self-love, I cannot imagine that you would act otherwise. You cannot give what you don’t have.”

 “And in my case, they know I can sometimes be super sensitive. Trust me, I do look the other way sometimes but I do believe that at some point, one has to give it back to them hot.”

 “It’s a new chapter of my life and I have never disillusioned myself that things would stay the way that they were. Nothing stays the same; that’s just the natural order of things. And that’s fine. As long as I am healthy and my daughter is fine, then what’s there to complain about?

“Pre-pregnancy body was amazing but it’s gone and there’s nothing wrong with that. I housed a whole human being for almost a year, so it’s okay if it takes a while to bounce back but if I need to hasten the process, I would simply visit the gym or under the knife; or both. Why not?”