Popular Nigerian influencer and socialite Simisanya Dapson has revealed how leaving Ikorodu and seeing how people live in other parts of Lagos helped change her mindset about wealth and success.
Speaking on the With Chude Podcast, she recalled how seeing someone drive a Benz while living in Ikorodu could seem like a big deal.
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She said, “It’s not just about leaving Ikorodu to the island, just living in Ikorodu in general, because around you won’t see a lot of people driving Benz. And then, I mean, now it’s different, but then if somebody’s driving a Benz, you’d be like, ‘ah.’ But then on the island, people are driving Ferraris.”
She explained that exposure to other environments can make people realise that they can aspire to more.
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“They’re driving, like your mind, you need to see other places, how things are done for your mind to be open, to be receptive to what God has in store for you”.
Simisanya also spoke about how her family would be cautious about wearing expensive jewellery because of security concerns.
“Because some days you just be like, Oh, we’re wearing gold, let’s take it off. My mom, until she’s approaching the party, she won’t wear the gold, so they will not…”
She said seeing people openly wear jewellery worth millions on the Island further changed her perspective.
“But on the island, people are wearing diamonds, costing millions. Like we need to see that there’s life outside of there.”
She added that while the fear of being monitored for wearing gold is real, the experience ultimately helped her move beyond a limited mindset.
“Well, it’s not a lie. The fear is there. People can actually monitor you because you’re wearing small gold. Unlike on the island, people wear gold costing millions, and nobody cares. So, like, I just needed my mindset to shift from that small, you need to be something more. Yes, bigger.”
